Helpful Hints for Visitors and for Patients in Rehabiltation and care centers and in Nursing homes

It has been a while since we posted something here. Here is our update to our blog. Some information for you:

1. You have hope. If you have a family member or friend inside of a nursing home, know that you do have hope. There are ways that you can make the stay more healthier, happier, and more joyful. The first way is to enlist as many people as possible to go inside the nursing home and have regular visits. Have regular visits but at irregular times. Have some surprise visits whenever possible. If you find yourself showing up at the home "every Tuesday", then one week, go there on a Monday , and then also go for your Tuesday visit.

At the bad nursing homes, you will find SOME staff always asking when you will be coming back. The reason they ask that is because they must pretend to be on their best behaviour when family or friends are visiting the patients there. So, always make surprise visits and never let anyone know when you will be visiting patients inside of Rehabilitation and care centers or inside of nursing homes.

Surprise, surprise, the more surprises the better.


2. Ask your Pastors, Priests, Rabbis and all of the above to make regular visits to the patient. Always have many others visit. Ask other family members to visit the patient.


3. If the nursing home patient is alert and vibrant, send in "workers" or sales people such as Fuller brush or Avon, in to visit with the person. They can make small purchases for the home or for themselves and in the same time they will have more visitors on a regular basis. Tell the salesperson that you want to be aware of all the special "sales", and then have them call you so that you can arrange a visit to the patient right at the nursing home. Tell them to sign in there as a visitor. You do not need to tell the desk that you are a sales person since the family has given you permission to visit the patient.

4. Join some civic organizations or clubs. Enlist your friends, family and members of your clubs to have some visits once in a while. ANY and all visits will help the patient. This is especially helpful inside of "bad" nursing homes since the more visitors the better. See, visitors are witnesses, and in the bad nursing homes, the staff and administration needs to put up a good front and pretend that they are all doing their jobs. So, your patients in the nursing homes get a little better care when the visitors (i.e. witnesses) are around to witness what really happens to their patients and to their residents. Be a witness today. If you are reading this and you live near any nursing home, kindly see if there is someone inside there that you can visit. Get permission from the family members.

5. Try and arrange to have whole classes and schools visit the nursing homes. This helps as ALL visitors can be quite helpful in stopping the nursing home abuses that the bad nursing homes dish out to their residents.

6. Plan holiday events for nursing homes. Plan OTHER events such as Fourth of July events, and other smaller holidays. Everyone visits at Christmastime but then the rest of the year is almost uneventful for patients. Now, you go change that and begin visiting other months and planning special events other months. You can change the world--one nursing home at a time.




We are happy to hear from you regarding your own experiences in nursing homes and rehab centers. Whether you are a patient, resident, staff or visitor, we welcome you to communicate with us.

Register some complaints with us so that we can pass the word around

Each and every day, we read more and more about nursing homes gone bad. The problem with this scenario is that it is being kept a secret -inside nursing homes. The patients and residents, and even sometimes, the visitors are very frightened about speaking out agsinst the nursing homes.

What is their fear?

They fear reprisals (since patients are living there, they have nowhere to go to. After making complaints, usually the patient needs to remain at the facility --the same facility where the complaints are registered. S0, patients do not report, and visitors do not report, --just to save the patient.

Now, what is the solution ? One simple solution --for future is to complain about these horrible places ONCE you are already outside the place. If you surive a horrible stay at any nursing home worldwide, we invite you to come and share your story.

Speak your voice today and get connected with us.






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December 11, 2008 What is Your Complaint about Nursing Homes and Physical Rehabilitation Centers inside of Nursing Homes?

As we write this issue of the blog, we wonder what your complaint is?

Have you been treated wrongly inside of a physical rehabilitation center or a nursing home?

What is your experience?

We would love to hear your first-hand experiences and those experiences of your family members and friends.

We await your stories, the truth and nothing but the truth.

No need to give your real name, just write to us and we will see what you have to say.


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Died due to malpractice, and gross negligence

Well , just recently there has been a death that is due to someone who was hospitalized at a very bad hospital and also, before that a resident at a STaten Island rehabilitation center, a nursing home near the water.

Has someone you know died due to malpractice, or due to negligence or plain gross negligence, contact us anytime.









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June, 2008

We are happy to hear from you regarding your own experiences in nursing homes and rehab centers. Whether you are a patient, resident, staff or visitor, we welcome you to communicate with us.

Hello and glad that you are here with us today. We are hoping that you will and do participate in this forum. It is all about reform, and changing things for the better inside of horrible rehabilitation and care centers and inside of horrible nursing homes. There are some things that need to be changed also, in some of the so-called good nursing homes.

Know this--that if you are undecided as to whether to go to live in a nursing home or not, kindly reconsider even thinking about it. Many of our friends, relatives, co-workers and associates have family members in some of them and they are almost all dissatisfied with the care, lack of care, the treatment and everything related to the bad homes and rehab centers.

This does not come out on the front pages of the news because it appears that the Directors of Social Work and the Administrators inside the horrible places, do their best and use their powers to keep everything QUIET, and to keep things out of the news.

Recently this past year, a lady actually left a nursing home , just walked out the front door of one, in one rehab and care center, and she got all the way to the Staten Island Ferry and not one employee noticed that she was even missing. How does that happen? It happens because the Administration and owners of nursing homes and those kinds of places are more interested in making money, in keeping money than they are interested in making things safe, clean and acceptable for residents and visitors there.

Yes, you did not see that incident on the news because it was hushed up and it happened right there in your own Staten Island community.


Then, months later, at another Staten Island nursing home, a resident was found on the ground after supposedly jumping from a sixth floor window. No one noticed this resident was gone until the body was discovered. Yes, right there in Staten Island. Fortunately this incident, this deadly incident was permitted to be put in the newspapers. Fortunately reporters got to the scene before any one could hush this one up.


Pass the word around. MOST , yes, MOST nursing homes and most rehab and care centers are focusing their attention on making money, getting money from Medicaid and Medicare and getting money from private payments rather than focusing their efforts and staff on keeping residents and visitors safe.

THis is your news flash for the month of June, 2008 .


We would like your input today; kindly leave a note to help ALL residents of all nursing homes around the world. Do you have a mom or dad? DO you have children? Then you need to participate here because these things affect you and your family and your heirs.

Stearing clear of nursing homes; try this

Things you might need to help someone stay at home (rather than go to a nursing home for daily living):

1. Walker
2. Wheelchair
3. Commode
4. Urinal
5. Bandages, wrappings, and other medical supplies when appropriate
6. Special stockings or socks
7. Special gadget that helps people put their own sox on
8. Lotions
9. Their own prescribed medications
10. Timers or reminders for medications
11. Palms or digital reminders/or computer pages to remind the patient of medicine or therapy routines
12. Possibly some home care attendants or visiting nurse services
13. Meals on Wheels -- when appropriate
14. Visiting counseling services
15. Visiting doctors' services or doctors on call
16. Posted emergency phone numbers
17. Cellular phone service and or lifeline-- whichever is more appropriate
18. Bathtub and shower bars
19. Grippers or Gophers to help reach things on high shelves or pick up things
20. and some other gadgets and equipment

This is just a beginning and a short list of what you might need if you want to stay in your own home rather than live in a nursing home.

We are happy to hear from you regarding your own experiences in nursing homes and rehab centers. Whether you are a patient, resident, staff or visitor, we welcome you to communicate with us.

Alert! Nursing Homes Alert; Please Read

Each and every day as our inspectors, observers, family members, co-workers and visitors observe what is happening inside of nursing homes, we realize and learn that the problem is throughout the system in both caring nursing homes and in the horror-house nursing homes.

There is one problem that is totally systematic throughout whether the nursing home is a good nursing home or bad nursing homes, in one area of practice these places are doing bad work and they are making patients more dependent rather than helping patients become more independent.

After all, when someone is in a nursing home for rehab purposes, they are usually there for short-term periods. Here is what happens when they arrive at some or most nursing homes:

• They are politely, yes politely, convinced to wear diapers for the sole convenience of the staff. Of course, the staff does not word it this way but that is the truth. They politely insinuate that if the person does not wear diapers that they might have accidents and deficate in their pants and on their sheets.
• They convince patients, politely convince them, at the same time telling patients that it is their choice, that wearing diapers makes sense in case they have an accident.
• What follows is that patients become dependent on the diapers and learn and are taught that is is way easier to poop in your pants than it is to have someone come to help you to the restroom.
• Patients are taught this because once the staff knows the patient is in diapers they do not rush to come to their aid. The staff attitude is "that person is in a diaper" and they ignore the patient and the patient deficates in the diaper.

How do diapers benefit the staff?

Here is how:

1. It takes LESS time for staff to change diapers than it takes for staff to help someone out of bed and help that person to go to the restroom.
2. If someone refuses to wear diapers, they make the patient wait and wait and wait longer for help to bathroom and that patient eventually realizes that it makes sense to wear a diaper because the staff will not come to his or her aid to bring him or her to the restroom in time and they will have accidents if they do not wear diapers.
3. Staff does not have to lift patients up from the bed or have their weight while holding them in the bathroom.

IT is all around convenience for staff to have patients wear diapers.

Note that not all patients medically need diapers. Only some patients medically need diapers and those patients should wear diapers.

But when staff consistently convinces patients to wear diapers for the staff convenience then the staff is doing a disservice to patients all over the world.

Kindly leave your comments here. Thank you. We look forward to hearing from you about this topic.

We are happy to hear from you regarding your own experiences in nursing homes and rehab centers. Whether you are a patient, resident, staff or visitor, we welcome you to communicate with us.

All Over USA and Worldwide

Some of the most horrible abuses in the nursing home system are happening in the United States of America and in the UK.

Stories, true stories, of elderly and residents being kept in bed for more than fifteen hours a day, and being kept on toilets for half-hour or more, have been circulating throughout the United States. In one severe case , a man was taken to the emergency room due to maggots in his eyes.

How in the world can a medical institution or nursing home allow the health of a human being to deteriorate so much that maggots have time to grow in a human beings eyes?

And this is just the beginning of the horror stories. These stories are all over the USA and all over the UK.

Pope Benedict and nursing homes

Pure Opinion

(When we remember that pure opinion is just someone's opinion, which they are fully entitled to, then we will remember that this post is legitimate, honest, and right to the point).


Pope Benedict:

The Pope planned, along with his entourage, a huge Birthday Bash for himself. They planned it good, covered everything that they thought should have been covered, and went and put it into action, for what would have been the largest, celebration, birthday bash in this country --for many years to come.

That's the way it all went down, but this is the way that I would have liked it to happen, but no one asked me, so I save my pure opinion for here, for this page.

We would have liked to see the Pope, Pope Benedict:

• Gather all the children and teens into the Great meadow of Central Park and hear them out,listen to them, listen to their stories of how they live, where they are in their lives and what they plan to do for the rest of their lives.
• Meet and great the real people of the USA, not just the rich or priviledged few thousand that were given that honor by an unseen, unheard of lottery.
• Gather all the politicians, Congressmen and women, Senators, and everyone who is anyone in government and taken them on midnight raids into nursing homes in Staten Island and the rest of New York. We would have liked the Pope to see what is happening to people in NY --that are the same age and younger than he is, himself.
• We would have liked to see the Pope leave his 40-people entourage at home, and just come as "himself", to NY, to Washington, to the USA, as the chosen representative of Jesus Christ, and we would have liked to see him approach the podium and tell everyone that they, yes they, are the true representatives of Jesus Christ, while he is the representative of the Church (The Catholic Church), and tell them that as representatives of the true Jesus Christ, they have a duty to love people, to keep Jesus in their lives and to do good, choose good over choosing evil.

We would have liked to see the Pope do all of those things, but he didn't do it. There are so many things and so many actions that we would have liked the Pope to do and to take while he in the United States, yet, we didn't see him do these things.

So what does that mean?

It means that we, as a people, as a nation, as society, we, need to do these things for ourselves.

Calling all government officials, we need your help and we need your assistance in getting raids for the nursing homes that are harming people, that are treating people with no dignity, and those rehabilitation and care centers who are harming both residents, patients and families. We need to see this happen in our lifetime. We need the government to step in and to rescue these seniors from the clutches of rehab centers that do nothing but make people into vegetables and then take all their money, their medicaid and their everything they earned in their lifetimes.

We need government to step in and stop those offending rehab centers and nursing homes in the USA, specifically in Staten Island, NY, USA.

Rumor or Not? We need help checking this out

After doing some searching on the internet, we found that some major things have happened in some nursing homes (not good things).

After comparing them, we noticed that some of the offending problems and places have changed their names from nursing homes to "rehabilitation " or rehabilitation and care centers.

That appears to be a direct effort on the part of the facility to distance themselves from bad publicity about horrible problems and incidents, by taking the words "nursing homes" from their titles.

Is this true or rumor?

What do you think about it?


Have you heard any bad stories (true or not ) about rehabilitation and care centers in your city, town or country?

We would love to hear from everybody about their experiences.

Rate Your Nursing Homes & Rehab Centers

Now, finally there is a site to rate your nursing homes. (SEE THE LINK to rate - in this message) Read the entire message before connecting with this link . Thank you).

Rate your nursing homes and rehabilitation centers by emailing us with
your details ; You can remain anonymous. Email onenewbeginning@yahoo.com


Do you have a relative in a nursing home or rehab center?


Are you presently living in a center?

Go to this site and post your own notes. Have your family and all their friends rate the place. This is one way to get the news out about the bad and the good nursing homes.




You can change the world just be giving your own opinion at




ALSO, leave your rating here in a note or by email. You can help seniors and young people by rating places.

Others will see your ratings and hopefully no one will choose to go to bad nursing homes or bad rehab centers.

Here is one more link (the other links are the same and this is one different link).

Apparent suicide at Nursing home?

The news article (see the other posts here), states that the death was an apparent suicide.

THE NEWS LINK is at the end of this article also and here too. Please read this whole message before clicking on the link.

We are wondering why they put the cause of death in the news when it wasn't fully determined that it was a suicide.

Seems the assumption is made that it is a sucide? But why make that assumption when there are so many other assumptions that can be made in circumstances like that.


What about these factors:

• IF (That's if) this woman committed suicide, what were the reasons that she felt so strongly about that she took her life? What was her quality of life like? Did she have anything to look forward to? Most times, people commit or attempt to commit suicide because they have nothing to look forward to.
• If, it was a suicide, could other determining factors be what her life was like at the nursing home? What is the reason why a human being wants to take their own life?

If this has not clearly been determined that it was a suicide, then what was the cause of death?

These are not accusations but these are only questions. These are probably questions that most everyone who read the accounts had in their mind. Some didn't state the questions but others did ask .

All this post is saying is this:

What makes the determination that this was a suicide?

1. Was there a suicide note?
2. Did the woman threaten to kill herself at all while at the nursing home? (And if so, why were proper precautions not made --the window? ).
3. Did anyone else know about this woman's need to kill herself (If this was a suicide)?

Usually people have warnings when people are going to threaten themselves and others. Were there warnings in this particular case where this woman was found on the ground after having either jumped or been urged out of the window. (I state those two possibilities only because the news articles states that this is

apparent suicide --

The word apparent means it has not yet been officially determined that it indeed was a suicide.

Does anyone have the latest news on this story, we would love to hear the outcome of any investigations or new findings in this case.

Either way, if she jumped that's bad news; If this wasn't a suicide, that's worse news.

We will watch the news to see the updates. Kindly post the updates here in your own postings (messages). Thanks for the information.

READ the news story about the woman they found on the ground.